Educational prosess is a long term systematic and humaine prosess. Both parents and teachers must understand that there is a personality in every even little child, even if this personality is not realised yet, still it is a personality. This article discloses peculiarities of bringing up of a happy child, which are based on real love to a child. If a child is in the atmosphere of an absolute love both in a family and educational system, then he will grow as a happy and a self -realised personality, The task of the adults is to help the child, while he is little to relise his own '' Self'', which will help him to become a personality .To be able for adults to react correctly to some details of behaviour, the author of the article offers some rules of education, which may contribute to effective collaboration of adults and a child. Actions effect children stronger than words. Family way of life is a basic of upbringing. A child may be'' filled'' just what is owm experience of parents