This article bring forward an actual problem for our society: aggressively. The actuality of this paper determined by the negative influence of social contemporary crises upon human psychology, which generates anxiety and tension, aggressively and violence. Violence and Aggressively are complex social phenomena. Also violence and aggressively are those phenomena which supplemented each other and generate a lot of negative and destructive consequences to the school structure and development. This paper presents and analyzes a lot of various strategies to change unwanted and inappropriate behavior for people.