The article deals with the aspects of modern family relations between the child and parents, how the family affects the establishment of the child's personality, what types of parent-child relationship happen. The role of the family in the formation of the personality is determined by dependence: how the relationship in the family developed, this is how the person grew up. The influence of parents on their own child is manifested in various forms. Mistakes in raising children in a family arise when parents do not see the requirements and differences between the past and the present. In our time, the upbringing of children in a family takes place in democratic conditions. Using the right upbringing methods, parents try to integrate their children into society and comprehensively educate them in order to properly organize their future social status.