A person's ability to engage in an experience of solitude depends very much on their internal experiences as well as their relationship with others. In the dynamics of the personality through and in reaching the stages of development, all those individual premises are created to constructively use the time spent away from others. How solitude is perceived and the meanings ascribed to it can also play an important role, because as a person ages they will spend more and more time alone, alone and alone with themselves. Who and at what stage of age has the capacity to be alone with oneself in solitude; who has the ability to be and stand apart, to feel comfortable or safe with themselves? Why some people can do this and others dont is also a rhetorical question to which we will seek to find an answer.