Adolescence plays an important role in the development of self-identity during the process of problem solving in preventing violence and aggression. It is necessary to use the new peculiarities of this period: ability of self-reflection and self-control, purposefulness of behavior. The right ability to evaluate oneself and people around you leads to the growth of the level of self-control in one’s emotional condition and behavior. Overcoming destructive attitudes and aggressive states is solved with the help of special psychological help through some specific trainings.